Friendship at stake because of relationships?
Read a news report that stated every time you enter a new relationship you lose approximately 10% of your friends.
Though I didn't lose any friends, I did completely forget about the existence of 90% of mine, and that includes my family too. I got so wrapped with the man in my life, that everything apart from my kids went out of focus. The good news (is it really?) is that this phase doesn't last too long. Even better news is that my friends were so happy for me, that they teased me about my vanishing act, rather than be hurt by it. But I'd like to clearly state I'm lucky to have such friends because apart from the fact that I value them for the individuals they are, truth is, we all need our support systems in place for when things go wrong, and family and good friends do form that amazing trampoline. Determine right this very moment, those whom you value, appreciate and never would like to let go of. If you are ignoring them, sit them down and tell them how much they mean to you.
I am a 19-year-old girl and my elder sister got married recently. My brother-in-law is a handsome man who often flirts with me. Recently, I have been thinking a lot about him. I know it is wrong but I can't help it. What should I do?
Smile, laugh and say 'jeejaji you are embarrassing me!' Say it to his face, make a joke of it innocently in front of the family and I'm sure he'll back off immediately. Sometimes it works to plays dumb and in this case, a few years down the line, you'll be really happy you didn't allow it to go any further. ...
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